Relationship Tip #17
“Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reasoning and arguments. That is my experience. No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding.”
Relationship Tip #17: This quote from Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hahn reminds us that blaming another person does not work; what works is understanding the other.
I find it helps to remember that whatever your partner says or does makes sense to him or her even if it makes no sense to you.